It was a long and hard decision, but in the end, Catelynn and Tyler made the choice to put their daughter up for adoption. So what's it been like taking a backseat in Carly's life? Catelynn wrote in to explain where she's coming from (she's still "100% confident" she did the right thing) and to offer advice to other young couples facing the same difficult decision.
My life has changed a lot since the Life After Labor reunion show. Tyler and I found it easier to say goodbye to Carly by saying "See ya later!!" Right now, Tyler and I are trying to find jobs and get our own place. I get excited to see pictures and get phone calls every week. Carly is starting to roll on her side!!
In fact, I am a mom even though I'm not raising Carly. But while I may be Carly's mom, I'm not her parent. The most challenging thing was having to say goodbye to my daughter. My words of advice to other teenagers in my position is to put that baby before yourself and not be selfish. Remember that an innocent child did not ask to be brought into this world and didn't choose their parents, so make sure to deliver them the absolute best care you can.
I'm not going to sugarcoat it... IT IS GOING TO BE THE HARDEST THING YOU WILL EVER DO... but always remember that whatever does not kill you will make you stronger. Keep your head up and be the parent that your baby deserves. That baby is counting on you to make the right decisions for them. Remember that the baby is the most important thing in this whole world, and that's all that matters. It's not what you want but what's best for your child.
xoxo
luv,
Catelynn & Tyler