After returning from Cairns, everyone is anxious to meet their new roommate. Ashli is from Huntington Beach, California is 19-years-old and currently unattached. The very attractive new roomie strolls into the house and quickly introduces herself to everyone with a huge smile on her face. (So far so good right?)
Everyone in the house seems to really be enjoying her company and Parisa is especially optimistic. She’s hoping that she’ll be able to connect to her new roommate the way the other girls in the house have connected. No such luck Parisa! Ashli is really into fashion and bonds with Trisha almost instantly. And within a few hours, KellyAnne brings Ashli up to speed on all the gossip in the house. KellyAnne is sure to not leave out that everyone has a difficult time dealing with Parisa. KellyAnne and Trisha have really made it almost impossible for the new girl to form her own opinions about everyone else in the house.
And then there’s Isaac. Isaac came back from vacation and called Noirin for the first time in two weeks. Remember Noirin? She was the “super super super super turbo sexy” Irish girl he met in Chinatown. The two of them seem to be inseparable once he gets back. Isaac even confessing that he sees no reason to date someone if you can’t imagine yourself possibly getting married to that person.
And here is yet another reason why I really like Isaac! He goes out one night without his leading lady and brings home four other girls only to realize that he wants them to leave. He immediately calls Noirin to tell her the story and she of course gets upset — not super upset, but just a tad weirded out. He understands that it was a dumb move and then has Noirin come over to just wake him up. (HOW ADORABLE IS THAT!?!?!) I cannot wait to see what happens with them!
What do you think will happen with Isaac and Noirin? Cohutta and KellyAnne? Do you think that Ashli and Parisa will every be friends?
first off, she was being incredibly disrespectful towards parisa's mom, who she doesn't even know and therefore doesn't have that right, and besides she's her elder, that in itself should be enough for her to have some respect
second off, i find it so annoying when this girl calls herself a "christian", she's a terrile person, she's incredibly selfish, and thus is nothing near a "christian"
third off, her line of defense for why parisa should allow her on the phone was that she got off the phone with her boyfriend the day before, right? well she wasn't going to get off the phone, but her boyfriend urged her to, so she needs to stop acting like she did it out of the goodness of her heart.
and i can't seem to understand why so many people are appalled by the statement parisa's mother made...she was simply saying that only one's family is going to give one unconditional love and respect regardless of their faults...i find this to be true, and while surely you can find friends who will treat you just as well, there are few good friends out there like that, and you therefore shouldn't expect for everyone to be like that and trust them and give them the opportunity to hurt you...which is what her mother is saying, don't expect so much from others and in the end get hurt.
1. trisha acted holier-than-thou when she gave parisa phone time after she lied to parisa about not being able to talk to jared while he was in arizona--and the only reason trisha got off the phone was because her own boyfriend didn't understand why she was lying(!), also later in the episode after parisa had been on the phone for one hour, trisha cried to kellyanne about it and then interrupted parisa's conversation with her dad--that was completely unnecessary. trisha could have said her peace and then let parisa finish her conversation, but instead, trisha had to go on and on and whine and complain and she stood there until parisa hung up with her father. that was disgustingly rude of her.
2. when trisha rudely asked parisa to join in the cleaning, parisa simply told her to let her know what she could do and she would do it. what's wrong with that? just because she didn't want to 'group clean' doesn't mean that she didn't want to pitch-in!
3. i am embarrassed trisha is a christian and constantly insists that she has great christian values. if she was as good a christian as she thinks she is, she would realize that she is far from perfect. i laughed out loud when trisha said she had a "great christian heart." yeah, trisha, we can tell. you are turning the masses away from religion by your behavior. parisa has every right to criticize trisha's behavior in relation to trisha's christianity because trisha is constantly throwing her religion in everyone's faces.
4. trisha should have taken a moment to pray for peace from God before she ran over and pushed parisa. there is absolutely no reason why the situation should have escalated to that point--you can't even blame alcohol for trisha's actions, only her absolute craziness. i think trisha is someone that, like someone else said, only looks for friends that are like her. she is extremely close-minded and likes to force her opinions on others, and if you don't agree with them then she is not going to like you and she is going to get everyone else to hate you too. poor kellyanne just isn't strong enough of a person to have an opinion about anything so she just does whatever trisha brainwashes her to do.
i am so excited that trisha is going home. if i was parisa and i had the opportunity to send trisha home, i absolutely would. trisha makes parisa's life hell in sydney with her constant whining, insults, and snide remarks. i think it's clear that the two will never be friends, so why not take the opportunity to stick it to trisha. if the situation was reversed, we all know that trisha wouldn't bat an eyelash and parisa wouldn't have been able to pack her bags herself.
p.s. pelea, what parisa's mom means by that is because they are bound to you by blood, so in some respects they are really the only ones that will always be there for you and love you no matter what. your friends aren't always going to be there for you and love you like your family will, as much as you may think they are going to be.
GROW UP PARISA! YOU ARE WORSE THAN ALL THE REST PUT TOGETHER
The others faults are so small in comparison to Parisa, that I cant believe I'm saying it, but I take the others sides against Parisa on every issue. It even surprises me! But she has not once acted like a decent human being.
There's only one reason.
Parisa you are low class and immoral.
Parisa has issues, and is so self absorbed she doesn't even know how to minimally relate to anyone, but at least we can see some explanation for it here. MAN!!!
In fact, Parisa was rude to the girls the first time she met them. Wouldnt talk the first time they asked. Wouldnt talk the second time. Then loudly starts bad mouthing kelly anne so loud her voice echoed through the whole house. That was just in the first day or two. I dontknow how anyone could like parisa after that. Let alone after all the even worse stuff she has continued to do.
You are so right about Parisa, and yes we could add so much more to that list.
But I just have to especially agree ya, two times before she met the roommates she complains about them. She says she hates pretty girls. (CAN YOU SAY 'JEALOUS' PARISA?) and she says she has NEVER got along with any females ever.
But to add one of the things you didn't put:
6. She ragged on KA for flirting with Dunbar when he had a gf just because she was jealous. Then she kept flirting with him in a pathetic way, like the suntan lotion face incident. (CAN YOU SAY BIG HYPOCRITE PARISA?)
The first day she:
1. refused to chat w KA and Trisha, and gave them a dirty look,
2. again refused when they tried to asked if she wanted to talk outside,
3. basically refused shauvans offer to be a roomate. Instead of saying "thank you" or "that sounds great" (like a normal person) when shauvan asked to be her roomate she said (making a snide face) "I'd just as soon room with a guy not you."
4. when they all went out she left and trash talked the others about having to "babysit" especially KA (even tho the only one ever needing babysitting has been parisa).
5. she even says with the cleaning "im not into the group thing"
THAT'S RUDE!! AND SOOOOO ABNORMAL!!!!
I'm getting really tired of seeing her pretend to be one way, and then act the exact opposite all the while playing the victim, judging the others, and blaming all her actions on everyone else.
Parisa never seems to run out of lame excuses. I'd respect her more if she'd just own up and stop lying.
Parisa needs to stop throwing herself at every guy here roomates are with, and Parisa needs to stop being so rude, fake, and judgemental.
Parisa FIRST goes for Dunbar - only after she trash talks KellyAnn for doing it. IT shows how jealous Parisa gets that she tore in to Kelly Ann saying it is wrong to flirt with Dunbar, only so she could flirt with him.
Parisa SECOND throws herself all over Alex. You can tell he doesn't even like her and she sounds so stupid when she says "should I let him know Ilike him?" duh? parisa. he already knows!!! you are thowing yourself at him. HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU.
Parisa THIRD throws herself at Prahn after she JUST SAW him flirting with and KISSING Kelly Ann.
I have NEVER seen anyone act as jealous and shady as Parisa.
Also it was embarrassing to hear the way she talked about it, like "he really likes only me so its ok in MY CASE (aka not for KellyAnn) that he has a gf" and "The only reason he treats me bad is because he likes me so much."
Talk about insane.
I imagine living with her it would be building andbuilding. The difference with Parisa is that she always makes up lies and jsutificiations why she is ALWAYS the right one and everyone else is wrong. EVen in confession, sometimes she will start by admitting she knows she is wrong, but as soon as she starts talking she starts making excuses...
The others in contrast, dont hold grudges and arent continually rude and snappy in their answers. ANTYHIGN you say to Parisa she not only snaps,but she answers with a rude inference. "i'd rather be someone elses rommate than yours" "i dont feel like haning in a groung with YOU guys."
For goodness sake! How long can anyone handle someone like her!!! I think Parisa is completely to blame because she has acted so poorly so many times its like everyone else cant even begin to compare to her foul behavior.
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I would wish that they stop fighting and do some crazy things in Sydney and just enjoy the time they are there. I would do that. But no, they are too busy to call each other bitches ect.
Yes, she cooks for the guys. So maybe she thinks that makes her a "guys girl," but all it really does is keep them coming by periodically for food. Who wouldn't?
Additiaonlly, I'm sure the guys like the ego strokes of the way she fawns over them and fights over them. She only picks guys who are already seeing someone close to her, then she attacks. (Which reeks of insecurity and over competitiveness as if she is trying to prove somethng because she doesn't feel confident about herself.)
The girls, she can't get along with at all, and from what she admits, never has. Again, a secure confident person would not feel threatened by people of the same sex and would have at least SOME relationships with the same sex.
I think Parisa would be well served to seek out counseling now that the show is over. Even her obsessive self absorption springs from low self esteem. Counseling might help her overcome her difficulty with relationships and her low self esteem.
If you've noticed, in almost every conversation she bites people's heads off with her bitter tongue and snide tone. Even when SHE asks them something she is rude shen they answer her, like the time she asks Trisha about Alex then SCREECHES at her for answering, even though that is what Parisa jsut told her to do. Plus Trisha answered nice, Parisa was rude as always.
Almost every comment she made this episode was rude, sharp, and had some mean little remark inside it.
The fact that she can't form any healthy relationships just shows how deep her issues go. She reminds me of a cartoon character the way she snaps at everyone all the time.
Think about it, the very first day she talked smack about KA so LOUD you could hear it through the whole house. If Parisa had an issue she could have gone directly to KA instead of trying to belittle her in front of everyone. Parisa is sickening!
I am just fed up with Parisa. I can't even pretend to try to defend her anymore.
How do you automatically hate your roomates before you even meet them? That takes the cake. Parisa needs to learn some decency and manners.
I've never met anyone as rude and conceited as Parisa in my entire life. She will probably cause drama wherever she goes and whatever she does in life. I agree 100% that Parisa brought all this on herself.
1. You don't put your hands on someone! I would have decked that @$#%* in the face!! But Parissa, being a kinder person than I, kept her cool and called the producers instead. More than I could have done!
2. Trisha was VERY rude with the phone situation! If you see the same person calling "off the heezy" one should thnk, "hey maybe this is an important call." She didn't have to stay on the phone (even her friend said so) and she didn't have to add in the extras when she told Parissa that it was free. It was a slam at her mother's expense. Very not classy Trisha
3. Those girls have been rude to her since the beginning. Why when Parissa AND Shauvon were talking about K.A. in the 1st episode, no one says anything to Shauvon, but attacks Parissa? Both were in it talking. KellyAnne always plays both sides, she is not a good person and Cohutta is way too good for her. Anyway, the girls had it out for Parissa cause she is "naturally pretty" (meaning doesn't need to paint her face to be pretty), smart, CLASSY, and way too nice if you ask me. She is the whipping post!
4.About the cleaning, no one remembers the episode when Parissa cleaned by herself? Sheis probably tired of cleaning up after those bitches! She said leave me a task and i'll do it and they didn't even ask nicely. so #?#?$ them! If they all cleaned their own messes daily....they wouldn't have to worry about having group cleaning sessions anyway.
In conclusion, Trisha and the others suck...kellyanne is ok at best, and Parissa rocks! And the whole one phone thing is set up to cause conlict....Real World...you love making drama! and the new girl is a homewrecking biotch who is going to make up for the (fingers crossed) absence if trisha.
No matter how many times Parisa desperately chases after other womens men, they never want her.
She is the rudest, worst roomate I can imagine. I feel sorry for the others.
Seriously, has anyone here ever gone out with a group and one person in the group kept moving in on any guy you were with first? Especially if you just kissed the guy?
I've never had even an aquaintance try to move in on a guy I was already with.
In Parisa's case it is also pathetic because it is so obvious to everyone else the guys arent interested, then because they are not responding the way she wants she'll go into those dialogues about "should I let him know.." when she already was so desperate and pathetic in the way she threw herself at the guy that he is laughing at her.
I would feel sorry for her, but she is so rude and without any integrity in her behavior toward the others so I can't even feel sorry.
She has been trying to start battles with all the girls from day one, and trying to start romances with all the other girls guys.
So, she gets no pity here. It's your own fault Parisa.
The truth is Parisa atarted everything in a fake and passive agressive way. She pokes at people until they finally respond, then she loves to play "poor-me-victim."
Well you just look even more pathetic Parisa!
I have been in Parisa's shoes (I seriously thought something was wrong with me when I couldn't get along with my old co-workers, turns out they were EXTREMELY racist and sexist, it was confirmed when I won my court case) and while people may not want to believe it, her race and religion IS a factor for why SOME of the other roommates treat her with such contempt and disrespect. Dunbar and Trisha LOVE to use Parisa as a whipping post for whenever they want to let off some aggression. The fact that Trisha can make a mean comment in regards to Parisa's mother, then expect Parisa to cut short her conversation for her AFTER the comment shows you just how stuck up and stupid Trisha is.
I hope they send Trisha's A** home, she broke the rules and must live with the consequences. Let's face it, if it was a black cast member becoming physical they would be booted loike a hot potato. Yeah, that's right I said it, race is a problem... racism has not gone away. Let's talk about it and move forward as a country.
Why should Parisa continue to be verbally, mentally and now physically abused so that Ashli can have a shopping buddy?
Get a clue chica, the two people you feel drawn to are the WORST people in the house. Dunbar will eventually flip his lid and go off on you, like he has done with every other girl in the house. And Trisha will just rot your brain and whatever free thought you may have. Please give Parisa a chance, you could learn a lot from her, more than just how to shop, get drunk, make out with random guys, cheat on your bf, lie and be judgmental the way Trisha is. Parisa could teach you how to actually survive in the big city. New Yorker's RULE!
Thanks for sharing with us "Back Off." I believe that racism does exist more in some areas than in others. I also believe what you say when you shared about what happened to you and I am so sorry about that but also glad that you were at least able to do something. You shared everything in such a calm and nice way too!! You are awesome. :)
Still, no offense, but for me, it just isn't because Parisa is Muslim and not because she is Persian. Initially, the thought of race affecting my opinion of her had never EVEN CROSSED MY MIND, because when I'm picking friends that's not what I look for. But when I saw some people blaming the Parisa dislike on race I tried to step back and honestly search my mind. What I did was first think of every other reality show I've watched to see who were my favorites. (Lots of my favorites are various races, and vice versa.) Also, I tried to imagine people of all different races doing stuff Parisa has done.
AND STILL, it's just not race. It's the way she's acted. I'm lucky that my parents are not racist at all, so growing up I had best friends from almost every different race and I was never taught there was anything weird about that. Once though in jr high I had to temporarily move to school in a big city in a very bad neighborhood and that was the first time I ever ran into racism because a lot of people hated me automatically because I was white. I've run into racism since then - for example, my x-fiance was a different race so some of his aunts hated me because I was not their race. And even to this day I still have friends of every race including some persians and some muslims whom I greatly admire.
After searching my SOUL WITH ALL MY HEART I really can say in Parisa's case my beef with her is not race, to me it is UNHEARD OF to throw yourself at guys who were first with your roomates (and excuses dont matter - not to me. I dont care the excuse. I think it is wrong in ANY case), to me she did say she hated all pretty model types before even meeting them, to me she was very rude in her tone and her words in so many responses, and even not helping when every other roomate was cleaning only because she SUDDENLY had to exercise RIGHT THEN. Another that REALLY SHOCKED ME ... she bad mouthed so much awful stuff about KA the first day or two so loud KA and EVERYONE heard it . HOW AWFUL and HUMILIATING! I would NEVER do that, and I just can't imagine any of my friends would either.
So, there is a lot more I could list about Parisa. But I really appreciate that you shared your heart and your experience!! I wish more people acted like that instead of just blasting out awful stuff and assuming it is race.
I do think racism is an awful thing that should never occur so we agree there. Just in my opinion, I can't abide Parisa's behavior no matter what race she was. So, at least for some people it is not race that make us dislike her, but instead it is her behavior. At the same time I agree with you that racism is an awful thing and I am not trying to discount it.
And u seem very cool! Thanks again for telling us so much personal stuff! :)
Not only does Parisa hold the grudge, she also to me seemed the most rude and problem causing all along so I feel she initiated every problem she is having. She would not be part of the group in any stage of the seacon, which is ok, but then she is rude to them all and makes nasty sneaky little comments.
At least to me, that is what has bothered me, and bothered so much that it takes focus away from the others because I think she has started problems and then pretends to play the victim.
Well sorry for such long comments and I hope we can agree to disagree. :)
The one episode showed her cleaning a few minutes one time and complaining about it, but typically it was the others that did all the claening. i think even parisa admits to that.
That is why Dunbar was worried about her making more messes - somthing she did all the time, and that is why it was especially rude to refuse to help the others clean just to start drama.
But then that's her MO. She was always refusing to cooperate. Parisa was looking for trouble and she created it.
She's awful!
Second, the girl was BROKEN UP when she started seeing that guy.
To me and every single friend I know who watches the show, IT DON'T GET LOWER THAN THAT! The fact that Parisa would do that is bad. The fact that she tries to BLAME it on someone else and make stupid EXCUSES IS PATHETIC!
Every time I hear that stupid excuse it just makes me hate Parisa even more. It's WRONG! No stupid excuses are going to make it right.
No. Just the opposite. Parisa does it over and over and then tries to justify it, as if it wasn't bad when it was. I cant even begin to understand the rude, obnoxious, self centered mentality of someone who would do that.
I'm down about the no excuse thing too. Every time I hear that stupid excuse I think she looks even more slimy. She should at least stop making excuses if she wants to act so low down.
But she does and I do.
That's one of the many ways Parisa is devious. She lies to the public and to herself. Like the comment below said, it also looks so weak. A strong person would just do it, and accept the consequences, and not make an excuse about whether she thinks the person has a boyfriend. That action is still wrong so why does it matter.
All that extra excuse does is show Parisa looking really weak and making up lies to act like she is better than anyone else.